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...i'm glad you communicated and things are better. The reason she's not interested in sex is because you're too easy, too predictable...i mean you've been all over her for 15 years like melted cheese on a Big Mac...you're smothering the poor thing. There's no game for her to win...no mystery...no tease. I say, muster all the self-control you've got and back-off. Act like youre indifferent for awhile and see how she reacts. Love is a dance.
...do this for a week (at least)...meanwhile, let her know how much you love her by doing things that aren't for a "means-to-an-end". Show her respect, thoughtfulness, interest in HER day. Make her feel like she's not an object but rather the most beloved creature in your life
...btw, the "chord you struck" with me is not that i'm sexually frustrated (does it show that much? lol). It's that i have no patience with men who don't appreciate their wife or SO
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