genuinegirly

Get your butt out of bed and close the doors yourself if you don't want to listen to her doing her business. She likely doesn't realize that she is leaving the door open. Do it often enough with griping/cussing along the way and she'll become aware of her negligence and start closing the door herself.

I prefer alone-time.
Differing opinions on this matter would be a deal-breaker for me.

Though if my husband occasionally needs to take a dump while I'm showering, it doesn't bother me. Sure, the smell isn't too great, but a little pretty-smelling shower gel or shampoo will distract me well enough.

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