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Originally Posted by wugglywoo
It's not that simple. We were always good friends, you know? And it's not like I made a move on her. She was the one who told me she had feelings for me. Since then she's told me again and again how much she cares/loves me...and that's where the confusion comes in. I guess I should have mentioned that before. :/
Psycho Dad: we both always knew that I was gay and she was bisexual. I wish that was the problem...but sadly it's not.
But thanks for all your advice. I think I'll try to avoid her myself and see if she contacts me. If she doesn't I'll suffer and suck it up and if she does, well, I might consider confronting her then.
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It seems like either she's not interested, or she's having major problems in her life. I'm not sure if it makes sense that she's not interested, since she's the one who came forward. If she's having major problems in her life...well, it may not be a good time for her to have a relationship, and you owe it to yourself not to wait for her. You also need to remember that you *can't* fix her. You can be a good friend, and supportive, and all that, but if she's got problems, she needs to fix them, not you. Let her know that you're available, but respect her decision if she refuses to have contact you.