So let me get this straight -
You have a terrible sex life.
You are at a dead end job.
You and your wife have vastly different personalities that impede everything from sex to carpooling.
Your wife is rather selfish (vegas thing)
At times the very presence of your wife makes you angry...
and you hate your cat
OK - My simple solution - get a divorce. Start anew. If your situation is so bad that its making you suicidal..you should get out of it, plain and simple. No domestic situation is worth that.
In general people have way to much stress in their lives, and you sir are defiantly one of those people. If you dont want a divorce then start making a concerted effort to minimize the stress in your life. To me, a life that only gives you negatives isn't worth living. Either try and fix it as best you can, and minimize your stress, or say fuck it, and leave.
I'd also seriously suggest getting rid of the cat. Not only is what you describe gross, cats cost money. Also, consider separating your finances more so you don't have to pay for your wife's belly dancing trips.
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