Wow, flash backs.
I think Will gave you some good advice. I also thing Pony's onto something. I don't want to punch you or anything but seriously you're in charge of you. Usually when dealing with issues like an SO's sloppy habits I find approaching them with "I love you. But when you do that I fell like this." works best. An I love you, but I'm hurt by your behaviors approach. I'd be very honest with her regarding your feelings.
As for you're financial situation it sucks, sure does. But Jewels is right, could always be worse. Least you have a job and it sounds like your bills are being paid.
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