Sexual problems are always due to lack of communication and/or understanding.
I don't know why you don't straight out ask her. Hey remember when we discussed how I'd really love you to suck me to climax? What's up? Are you afraid of anything? Is it something I'm doing or not doing? Help her help you.
Also, it wasn't clear but -- are you performing oral sex simultaneously? Some of us :8 are easily distracted and can't go with 69 unless I've had at least one orgasm or unless he's willing to wait. Just a thought.
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