Communication and patience is the only thing that will really resolve this situation. I know you say you communicate but maybe she is not ready to tell you exactly why oral sex bothers her. Just let her know that you are there for her and that whatever it is it will not make you love her any less. Maybe she just really doesn't like to give oral sex for whatever reason and she doesn't know what you will think of her. Me and my husband had issues with the same thing well not exactly. I love to give oral sex, even more then intercourse. But I have issues with him wanting to give me oral sex. I don't understand the appeal, I think it is gross and I don't know why I wont get over it. I mean I thought he would be glad that I didn't want him to do it in return. Well it was something we just needed to talk out, when I was ready. So that is the only advice I have to give. Hope it helps
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