thelifeandtimes

So my problem isn't necessarily a problem, but it has become something of a bother to me as of late. I've been with my fiancee for a little over 3 years now, and in that time, she has never given me straight oral, start to finish. What ends up happening is she will give me oral for a few minutes and then its straight to sex. Now, I love sex as much as anyone, but sometimes I would love an all oral(giving and receiving of course) session instead of it always leading into sex. Plus, there isn't enough time for a full blown sex session. Oral would fit the bill, but she always ends up passing.

What bothers me is that I've discussed this with her numerous times. And it's not that I just want to receive, I would be more than happy to do it to her. I've even offered to go down on just her with no expectation of her doing anything to me. She would always seem good with the idea, but that excitement would fizzle out when the time came.

I don't know, its a weird issue, but something that is becoming concerning. Not so much the oral sex part, but more the communication end of it.

What do you all think about this? Is it an area of concern? Any advice? Thanks all.