Originally Posted by djtobia

That is exactly my problem. I have so many friends, and all of them are awesome, but the girls that I always want to be more than friends don't go for me, even when I do tell them. It's not that I'm not confident, I do ask girls out on dates and I do tell them my feelings and all of that, its just that they always seem to find someone better at the last second.

As for the hobby the others spoke of, I am a musician as well, and am going to go to college for it. It has kept me occupied these last couple of months, I just get hit with emotion every now and then.

I thank all of you for the advice, I think it will truly help me.