You know, I don't know if anyone else remembers this, and I know I've posted about it before. For a while, a brief while, there was a little subforum dedicated to discussing the 'gender divide' or what have you, differences between men and women and so forth. Contained within it was this little jewel of thread originally titled 'why nice guys don't get the girl', or something to that effect it was later retitled -with good cause- but more on that later. (please god: someone, anyone, remember that thread?)
I want emphasize one of the most wonderful realizations I've ever witnessed on the TFP that occurred in that thread.
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Originally Posted by djtobia
It has happened time and time again to me, and I cant get it to stop. I compliment the girl, make her smile, make her laugh, do everything I can to get her to like me, and then she picks someone else.
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The problem isn't that you aren't getting the girls, you're probably swimming in girls they're just all 'good friends'. You said it yourself, it happens time and time again, you push her buttons (the good ones) make her laugh, feel comfortable, smile, whatever. Girls that don't like you don't do those things.
I know, I was there, I've seen this bit before. I was swimming in girls, the problem I had, that I couldn't quite put my finger on was simply this: of all the girls I had, or nearly had, whatever, none of them were letting me do the naughty fun stuff with them. Those things she only does with the 'other guy' that she's always picking. (Bitch
.). That sound more like your problem?