I too am a nice guy (or so I am told). The way you get anything in life while being a nice guy is to, as Martian suggests, grow a pair. You can be forthright without ceasing to be a "nice" guy.
You just need to go for it.
This has served me well with women, careers and buffet dinners.
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"My hands are on fire. Hands are on fire. Ain't got no more time for all you charlatans and liars."
- Old Man Luedecke
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