Why does Plan9 come up every time one of these threads come by?
Hint: Relationships Are Not A Game.
The whole player mentality is just another type of facade. While it works with a specific subset of women and will help with a specific goal pertaining to that specific subset of women, if the woman you desire is outside of that subset (or if you desire a specific woman, or if you're looking for more than to get laid) 90% of it is useless.
Really, it's just a matter of believing in yourself. Figure out what you're good at, do it well. Be passionate about it. Dress properly, bathe, get a decent haircut and shave every day or keep your beard neatly trimmed. Avoid sentences like 'I like your breasts' or 'Want to come over and see my level 70 elf?'
This is not difficult.
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I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept
I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head
I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said
- Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame
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