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Originally Posted by guccilvr
it's better to just have fun and enjoy the moment instead of worrying about time, orgasms and how to make it better.. those things tend to take care of themselves if you just enjoy the ride.
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This.
It's either psychological or physical, and I'm sure that over time you will last longer.
Now, they are researching an SSRI (anti-depressant) style premature ejaculation drug. I will say that this would double the time you would last, but you would want sex half as often.
As for physical things, have you tried adding more lube? Using desensitizing creams (underside of the glans)? Pulling out when you feel close, using ice cubes to cool it down, and then going at it again for a little longer (use your finger or vibrator on her in between)? Or does this show that I have never done this before...?
Have you ever practiced pleasuring yourself for a little while, taking a break for a minute or two, and repeat for an hour or so? You don't want to reach orgasm or go past the point of no return, but try to get as close as you can before stopping.
The other thing to try is to apply pressure to right behind the testicles (with your finger) when you are really close to an orgasm and have pulled out. It might take some practice to get it right.
The information here is what I was going to write next. But, this is the 200/300 level class. You need to work on the basics before you try too much.
Male Multiple Orgasms | Alternative Medicine Guide
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When the focus of your attention is on “not ejaculating” you are really paying attention to what you don’t want, and unfortunately, you are going to get more of it, not less.
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Trying to stop ejaculation is an example of the ordinary man’s attempt to stay in control. But the masculine sexual master understands that he controls nothing, nor does he care to.
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The other part about the "Awareness of Your Sexual Arousal Process" is really important to work on. Have your girl give you a handjob some time and just focus on the number. If 10 is orgasm, you want to stay at 6-8, sometimes 9.
Next month you can learn how to have a second, third and fourth orgasm right after your first.
(Your post was pretty funny to read
, I didn't mean that in a bad way. Your writing style and descriptions are great.)