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Originally Posted by kacilinden
I know he wants me to. He feels like I shouldn't want to hang out with any guy but him, and that doing so is a form a cheating.
It is a long distance relationship. I get to see hi about every other weekend.
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Yep. Your guy friend will or should understand that your soul mate is very important to you. You are still his friend but it is not appropiate to hang out nearly as much as you use to. In fact if you do why not together with your new mate. Does you and your guy friend have a co-dependency problem? If you love your new mate demonstrate. Trust is not instant, it is earned. Just cause you are not hanging out does not mean you are giving up friendship. Letters, ocassional phone calls, pictures of you and your mate to show that you are doing okay still shows your guy friends you are still friends. They should be intelligent enought to know life still goes through different levels. When or if your new mate or planing a family, friends are expecting too much if they still want you to hang out. That's kid stuff.