I'm in a similar situation to yourself.
- Good relationship outside of the bedroom
- Quantity of sex has decreased over the years
- She doesn't want to talk about sex, doesn't want to go to couple's therapy
- I'm very frustrated about it, but can't seem to convey it across to her. Mostly frustrated at her refusal to communicate about it.
One question to you: Is she aware of how upsetting the situation is to you? And how much damage this might be doing to your relationship?
If you have trouble communicating this to her, you might want to speak with a therapist individually, on how to best communicate the degree of your dispair to her.
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