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Originally Posted by jimmy1s269
Ok, this is for the ladies that are moms. When your kids were little, did you ever feel "touched out"? My wife says this. basically she means the kids have been all over her all day and she doesnt want anyone on her anymore, including me .
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Umm. No. I was never a jungle gym. Maybe she needs to understand how to separate herself from her children. Maybe this is an excuse. Hopefully not.
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Originally Posted by jimmy1s269
She is a stay at home mom and we have an almost 2 year old and an almost 4 year old who are both very snuggly.
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Very snuggly? What does that mean to you? Because the way you type it, to me it means very needy. It sounds like they feel there is no other comfort/protection/safety/ than Mom's arms. Mom is finding as much security in her childrens arms as they are finding in hers. She's hiding behind that.
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Originally Posted by jimmy1s269
So of course, by the time i can get alone time with her at the end of the day, she doesnt want me anywhere near her.
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It's hard for a women to find her place between Mother and Wife. When you have no other choices, it's a tough place to be.
Am I Wife?
Am I a Mother?
Am I a Protector?
Am I a Sex Kitten?
Being a stay at home Mom is hard. It is not as hard as a women who leaves their child in other's care so they can work.
Are you asking my opinion as a stay at home Mom? "Touched Out" sounds like a plea for needs that are not being met.
If she won't let you touch her because the "kids" are touching her all day you have huge problems that can't be solved by this board.
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Originally Posted by jimmy1s269
So, were you touched out with your kids? And how long did it take you to get beyond that feeling?
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Excuse.
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Originally Posted by jimmy1s269
oh, i put this in sexuallity cause its all about me not getting laid more than 2 times a month, in a good month, right now.
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Your Wife is having issues with her body. She thinks you no longer see her as sexual, only maternal. Show her what you feel. Show her that you see her as an equal.
Let her know that she still turns you on.
I'm reading much deeper problems here.