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Originally Posted by NoSoup
I understand communication is a very important part of any relationship, and I think we have an exceptionally strong marriage, but so far I've been keeping my qualms to myself - I'd rather just be supportive of her, and I don't want her to think that I have any doubts.
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NO, no no no no.
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Originally Posted by ShaniFaye
might I add, just from the way I know I am....do you think its possible it might help your wife to know you're scared and unsure as well? I dont mean dont be supportive...but to me knowing my spouse was having the same uncertain feelings and doubts as me would go a long long way in the supportive category and help me to know I wasnt alone in the way I was thinking, there is nothing at all shameful in having doubts...even people that have been TRYING to get preggie start to have doubts once the conception has taken place.
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YES, yes yes yes yes.
You want to be her partner in working through your fears together. Not some guy with no fear who's trying to cheer her up.