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Calvinmetal · 06-09-2009, 09:38 AM

So yeah, read this and had to register. Want to hear a "worst case senario" version of this story? Cool. I'm leaving some information out but here is the basics.

Last year I was into a not so valid form of making money to live off of. It was going awesome, until I no longer had a place to live. However, I was still making good (really good) money. I moved in with a friend and his family (he was living at home with parents, he is not married w/kids) and after a few months of him and I making money together, I was offered a job working for his mom selling and shipping foods to prisons. I took the job back around Novemeber and worked there happily until yesterday.
In February, a task force raided our house, the "big fish" turned on u saying we were the main supplier, and we ended up out smarting the police and keeping everything hidden well enought to remain clean...but thats is when we called it quits.

For the last few months before this all transpired, his sister had always caught my attention, but for a few reasons (including her being my bosses daughter and living in their house) I told myself never to make a move on her...which didn't matter because she made it on me eventually. So time goes by and it becomes somewhat of a serious relationship, we start seeing each other more, meaning more to each other etc, then is it a serious relationship.

After Dating three months, we were sitting in a chair watching a moive or something and her brother walked in and flipped out, we pointed out we wern't doing anything inappropriate, but he flipped regardless. I had a birthday June 1st, and on that day he asked me to move out within a week or two for more reasons than the previous night but including it as a reason. The next Saturday, was HER birthday. I'm practically family at this point, so I stay for the family dinner and watch a movie with the family, after which we go downstairs and finish Finding Nemo with her younger sisters, and then I put in a REAL Romantic movie...Friday

(Ice Cube and Chris Tucker). Halfway through friday the younger sisters go upstairs and brother comes down and once again freaks out asking all sorts of questions about what we were doing. Our answers didn't matter, so I stopped answering eventually...

Next day HER mom takes her cell phone and starts looking through the messages without telling her...she comes and sits next to me and shows a particularly graphic one

to me and tells me to go pack up. I'm still not sure if I have been fired, or if that was me quitting, but I'm supposed to get my Final Hours to her by Friday.

I brought up the point that what happened is a personal issue and she can't really fire me for it especially because it has never affected my work. I keep business and personal seperate, and am very good at it. She didn't listen, so I lost my job regardless. I lost my second family (well more so her brother, mother, and step-father, her other 4 siblings are happy with us being together).

Point is, some people who are in power will not use rational thinking and you will probably loose your job, so before you get toooo into your relationship, think about a carreer change or switching companies, and keep shit on the down low for a while...because no matter how secret you try to remain, if you aren't always super paranoid it's going to come back to bite you in the ass...but who wants to have a secret relationship anyways? Not me. Fuck that, I wont censor my feelings for anyone. I live my life how I choose to live it, and if someone else has a problem with it...guess what, thats their problem.

I decided to stay with her even though her parents dont want her to see me...ever...again. I lost friends and my job...i'm not loosing the one thing I was fighting for.

Hopefully her mom doesn't happen to check forums for this topic...I could see her being the type to do that... so on the off chance that she does, FUCK YOU.

I took better care of your daughter than you ever have, your ex-husband, or your husband, or any man she has ever been with. I make her happy and

So, to having a relationship and/or sex with your bosses daughter, CHEERS!!

oh this is bad.

Let me know what you guys think...besides that I'm an idiot or anything like that...I've gotten so much of that in the last few days I dont need to from you guys. Thanks. Hope you've enjoyed reading this. It has really sucked for me though.

---------- Post added at 11:38 AM ---------- Previous post was at 11:27 AM ----------

reading through that is makes it sound like we're 15 years old with the whole cell phone thing...definately not, im into my 20s. To whomever is considering dating their bosses daughter, I'm not kidding when I say, dont. The chances it will be anything more than a short fling with a bad ending are astronomical. I'm lucky in that I thik I'll be with this girl for quite some time. but dont just want to date or fuck your bosses daughter because she is hot. Or unless you plan on quitting and want to give your boss a big fuck you on your way out. lol

Anyways it's not a good idea unless you know her really well and are willing to loose what I have lost...which is close to everything. I said I would be leaving out details but I lost a lot and dont care to mention it.

Hope your decisions are the right ones.

Cheers! I'm gonna go have a beer and try to forget about this for a little bit.

06-09-2009, 09:38 AM	#50 (permalink)
Calvinmetal Upright	So yeah, read this and had to register. Want to hear a "worst case senario" version of this story? Cool. I'm leaving some information out but here is the basics. Last year I was into a not so valid form of making money to live off of. It was going awesome, until I no longer had a place to live. However, I was still making good (really good) money. I moved in with a friend and his family (he was living at home with parents, he is not married w/kids) and after a few months of him and I making money together, I was offered a job working for his mom selling and shipping foods to prisons. I took the job back around Novemeber and worked there happily until yesterday. In February, a task force raided our house, the "big fish" turned on u saying we were the main supplier, and we ended up out smarting the police and keeping everything hidden well enought to remain clean...but thats is when we called it quits. For the last few months before this all transpired, his sister had always caught my attention, but for a few reasons (including her being my bosses daughter and living in their house) I told myself never to make a move on her...which didn't matter because she made it on me eventually. So time goes by and it becomes somewhat of a serious relationship, we start seeing each other more, meaning more to each other etc, then is it a serious relationship. After Dating three months, we were sitting in a chair watching a moive or something and her brother walked in and flipped out, we pointed out we wern't doing anything inappropriate, but he flipped regardless. I had a birthday June 1st, and on that day he asked me to move out within a week or two for more reasons than the previous night but including it as a reason. The next Saturday, was HER birthday. I'm practically family at this point, so I stay for the family dinner and watch a movie with the family, after which we go downstairs and finish Finding Nemo with her younger sisters, and then I put in a REAL Romantic movie...Friday (Ice Cube and Chris Tucker). Halfway through friday the younger sisters go upstairs and brother comes down and once again freaks out asking all sorts of questions about what we were doing. Our answers didn't matter, so I stopped answering eventually... Next day HER mom takes her cell phone and starts looking through the messages without telling her...she comes and sits next to me and shows a particularly graphic one to me and tells me to go pack up. I'm still not sure if I have been fired, or if that was me quitting, but I'm supposed to get my Final Hours to her by Friday. I brought up the point that what happened is a personal issue and she can't really fire me for it especially because it has never affected my work. I keep business and personal seperate, and am very good at it. She didn't listen, so I lost my job regardless. I lost my second family (well more so her brother, mother, and step-father, her other 4 siblings are happy with us being together). Point is, some people who are in power will not use rational thinking and you will probably loose your job, so before you get toooo into your relationship, think about a carreer change or switching companies, and keep shit on the down low for a while...because no matter how secret you try to remain, if you aren't always super paranoid it's going to come back to bite you in the ass...but who wants to have a secret relationship anyways? Not me. Fuck that, I wont censor my feelings for anyone. I live my life how I choose to live it, and if someone else has a problem with it...guess what, thats their problem. I decided to stay with her even though her parents dont want her to see me...ever...again. I lost friends and my job...i'm not loosing the one thing I was fighting for. Hopefully her mom doesn't happen to check forums for this topic...I could see her being the type to do that... so on the off chance that she does, FUCK YOU. I took better care of your daughter than you ever have, your ex-husband, or your husband, or any man she has ever been with. I make her happy and So, to having a relationship and/or sex with your bosses daughter, CHEERS!! oh this is bad. Let me know what you guys think...besides that I'm an idiot or anything like that...I've gotten so much of that in the last few days I dont need to from you guys. Thanks. Hope you've enjoyed reading this. It has really sucked for me though. ---------- Post added at 11:38 AM ---------- Previous post was at 11:27 AM ---------- reading through that is makes it sound like we're 15 years old with the whole cell phone thing...definately not, im into my 20s. To whomever is considering dating their bosses daughter, I'm not kidding when I say, dont. The chances it will be anything more than a short fling with a bad ending are astronomical. I'm lucky in that I thik I'll be with this girl for quite some time. but dont just want to date or fuck your bosses daughter because she is hot. Or unless you plan on quitting and want to give your boss a big fuck you on your way out. lol Anyways it's not a good idea unless you know her really well and are willing to loose what I have lost...which is close to everything. I said I would be leaving out details but I lost a lot and dont care to mention it. Hope your decisions are the right ones. Cheers! I'm gonna go have a beer and try to forget about this for a little bit.