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Originally Posted by ASU2003
Does she own a vibrator? I would try focusing on only getting her off one night. Just make it about her and having a good time. You might not want to let her know right away that is the plan because it might put pressure on her to have to have an orgasm. Then after she has had one, then you can try to give her a second one.
Then again, why is she uncomfortable during sex? Have you tried various positions? Have you used lube? Are you using condoms? Or is it a bigger mental problem with sex in general?
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It's a mental thing as opposed to a physical thing. I can't really explain it all that well because she doesn't like to discuss it and I don't like to push her. But that is a good idea. I'm definitely going to give that a try.