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Originally Posted by CaptainRow
I've tried telling her what I like, but she's unable to do all of it - she can't fit more than a third to a half of me inside of her mouth without choking or gagging and she can't suck and lick as hard as I'd like either. Her grip is also not great.
I've tried showing her what I like, but it's always not right. "Not right" is a good way to say it, actually. What she is doing to me feels good, but it's not what I need to be feeling in order to orgasm!
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Everyone has already given solid advice, so here's the little bit I can add:
I can't remember who, but one of the females in this forum wrote a thread about giving good head. It has lots of good advice. You should let her read it.
I read a strange book once about sex, and it talked about "oral practicing" groups...yeah...strange but true. women get together and hold seminars, and "practice" on sex toys....perhaps your lady should try on one? especially for deep throating?
Also, demonstrate with your mouth and her finger(s). She doesn't want to hurt you, and since us ladies have no idea what it feels like to you, she's likely hesitant to really get into it. So show her how hard you want it.
Then perhaps have her practice on your finger? *shrugs*
And hey, if you want her to strengthen her grip (a thing I greatly needed to do, my handshake was whimpy), get her a hand strengthener...like a captain crush gripper. it works.