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[QUOTE=jewels;2647285]If you want her to be responsive to your needs, you need to be responsive to hers. If a little romance is all it takes, why not make her feel sexy and desired? Sometimes, it's all in the approach. If she feels she's taken for granted (very common), let her know she's not.
I'm with Jewels on this. Try re-framing the question from "How do I get what I need?" to "Dear/honey/sweetie/snookums, what can I do to meet your needs?" Start the discussion on a positive note: "I love when we are intimate. Will you tell me what I can do to make our times together more pleasurable for you? (Sounds a little wimpy I know, but trust me on this ... it's a dialogue starter.)
And OBTW ... keep an open mind on the maybe she is faking it issue. Doesn't mean you're bad or the relationship has gone south ... it means she isn't getting what she wants (and the big O may not be it).
In the end ... conversation is the best intercourse. And it will also get you laid!!!!!!
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