NoSoup

So.... I don't even know where to begin.

Obviously, it's entirely plausible that my wife is pregnant - much to the chagrin of many of you, this isn't a thread about whether or not it's possible via my finger.

I'm not even sure what kind of responses I'm looking for. It's not much of a story. She was late (although on birth control - the patch) and she took a test. Positive. She took another test. Also Positive. Now we've made an appointment for her lady doctor, so I'm sure we'll know for certain soon enough.

However, I'm a bit numb right now. Anyone else have any insight into when you found out?

Granted, we always knew it was possible, but we figured the chances were pretty remote, being on birth control and all. I wonder why I can't hit odds like that at a casio or playing the lottery. As far as financial readiness and all that jazz, I think we'll be ok, I just can't get over the fact of how it feels like I had a relative plan for my life and how waaaaay of course it just went.

Additionally, I'd like to get some of your folks opinions - obviously, you're probably not experts, but that's probably still a hell of a lot closer than I am. Since the probable conception of this potential child, she has definately engaged in behaviors we definately would have avoided if it was planned. The night in question she was drinking, and she had probably 3 glasses of wine (one night) since then. Additionally, she has smoked (tobacco) and taken Tylonol (twice) and Alovert (for allergies-twice)

Should we be overly concerned? Obviously, until we know for certain she isn't even drinking caffiene, but this very well may be the longest night of my life...

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