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I don't expect to have to be romantic EVERY FREAKING TIME we make love.
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If you want her to be responsive to your needs, you need to be responsive to hers. If a little romance is all it takes, why not make her feel sexy and desired? Sometimes, it's all in the approach. If she feels she's taken for granted (very common), let her know she's not.
Romance isn't about candles and gifts. It's most likely the intimacy is lacking with both of you exhausted after work. Consider a weekly "date" night or some form of committed time that you can't bow out of. Building the intimacy together may make it easier for her to talk about sex. Be sure to let her know how much you want and need her.