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I try to approach every debate with the possibility that I am flat out wrong, or that the other person has a gem of wisdom that I am currently blind to. Course, I have to be shown this, but I try not to make it unduly hard xD
In my thoughts, I had considered adoption but it was before my gf and I had our big abortion babies zomg chats, so it just never even was raised as a possibility. I have the feeling that she won't be ok with it under any circumstances, but it doesn't hurt mentioning :O. I think it would hurt her more to have the baby and have to give it away than to abort it as early as possible. She doesn't subscribe quite to the same rationale I use, but we end up in the same place so it's all good ^^
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