There is no such thing as perfection. If you want to get technical, we all settle. That said, it's how we learn to compromise and communicate that is important. If you can find someone with whom you can do these two things, then you have found a good match.
I've been with my wife for 21 years (16 married) and I can safely say that I have a found a great match. Is it perfect? No.
I think the problem here is the negative connotations associated with the term, settle. If I waited for perfection, I'd still be waiting.
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