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A few thoughts I had while reading through this topic. BigBlueWrecking mentioned beer as being a cause. I would say that alcohol plays a part for many people. I used to work in a factory when I was younger and used to watch the soap opera that went on there. Bunched of married people cheating with each other on their spouses. Every time alcohol was involved in the beggining.
Myself? I married young to the first girl I ever dated. Never really thought of myself as the cheating type but that all changed about four weeks ago. Didnt cheat exactly, no sex (no Clinton sex either) or kissing involved, but went farther than I ever thought myself possible. Our spouses were out of town and as is usually our custom my good friend and I will hang out together to keep each other company. Rented a few movies, Unfaithfull being one of them, about a woman who cheats on her spouse. Well why were are watching this movie and questioning why anyone in there right mind would do such a thing we are also getting all liquered up, also a custom of ours. Cant explain what happened after that but it wasnt anything that I had expected. Ended up spending the night passed out on her couch.
So why did we end up doing what we did? Dont know, cant say, it just seemed right at the time. And now? well now Im so fucked up in the head I dont know what Im going to do. So my advice? Stay away from the ol alcohol if you dont want to cheat.
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