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Old 06-03-2009, 06:10 PM   #54 (permalink)
Jozrael
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I am currently using it as a form of birth control.

My girlfriend is currently on the pill. On occasion (notably when she has been taking the pill less than a week), we use a condom. Perhaps I could use this everytime. Tbh, it doesn't really matter.

If she gets pregnant, we are getting an abortion.


Now there's a couple alternatives to this.

One: we could not have sex until point X in the future (Define point X as marriage, or financial stability, or both (in our case, both)).

Reason we're not doing it: Because it's not coming for a significant amount of time (we're both in college, not even engaged yet, etc.). And we'd like to be having sex during our best years . Call us irresponsible, but we've made the choice to not put off sex for X number of years. Since I was originally raised pretty fundamentalist Christian, this was a pretty hard choice for me to make since I consider abortion murder.

Two: we could simply carry the child to term if we conceive.

Uh uh, no chance, no way. I am (and she's not, we've separately come to this conclusion, as well as together) NOT going to deal with a baby at this point in our lives. We simply don't have the responsibility/financial resources to do so.
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