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Old 06-02-2009, 05:55 PM   #17 (permalink)
genuinegirly
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Originally Posted by Martian View Post
...The most reasonable solution in my mind is for an abortion to require either the consent of both parties, or for the father to abdicate any responsibility. Perhaps a failsafe of allowing the woman to make the decision unilaterally after making reasonable efforts to contact and consult the father, but other than that I don't believe the woman should have the right to make a decision in this regard without the father's consent...
Your scenario makes excellent sense and I am inclined to support it. But in this process you fail to address a scenario where a woman does not want the child and the man insists on its birth.

I agree whole-heartedly with the following comment:

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Originally Posted by mixedmedia View Post
... I understand that it is really hard for a man to lose a child, a fetus, to an abortion that he had no control over. But, I'm sorry, if it ever becomes so bad for a man that he is equally as disturbed and distressed as a woman who has carried to term and given birth to a child against her own will, then I suggest there is more going on in that man's head than is rational and he should probably seek professional help. I will go along with the regret and grieving only so far.
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