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Roseworld · 05-15-2009, 01:10 AM

Over 9 years together, I'm 39 and he's 48. We go at it like we did when we first met, lot's of foreplay makes for good sex but sometimes it's just a quick one just to tide us over until the next time. Once, twice on a good week, we work too much and aren't always home at the same time.

As a woman I always wonder about these women that always have an excuse to get out of sex. You should really try to talk to her about that. If I don't want sex I always say exactly why I don't want to or can't usually it's my period but lot's of times I will still get him off but then I enjoy pleasuring him and don't mind blowing him.

The excuse, "I'm too tired." bothers me because to me nothing is more relaxing than slow sex. After you'll both sleep better.

The excuse, "I don't feel well." Ask her why she doesn't feel well, is she sick? Find out what's wrong.

My BF had ex's that were like that, they never wanted to do it then they went out and had affairs and then the relationship was over. Not saying that will happen to you though.

Do you go down on her? If no ask her once and see what happens.

Good luck to you!

05-15-2009, 01:10 AM	#62 (permalink)
Roseworld Upright	Once or twice a week Over 9 years together, I'm 39 and he's 48. We go at it like we did when we first met, lot's of foreplay makes for good sex but sometimes it's just a quick one just to tide us over until the next time. Once, twice on a good week, we work too much and aren't always home at the same time. As a woman I always wonder about these women that always have an excuse to get out of sex. You should really try to talk to her about that. If I don't want sex I always say exactly why I don't want to or can't usually it's my period but lot's of times I will still get him off but then I enjoy pleasuring him and don't mind blowing him. The excuse, "I'm too tired." bothers me because to me nothing is more relaxing than slow sex. After you'll both sleep better. The excuse, "I don't feel well." Ask her why she doesn't feel well, is she sick? Find out what's wrong. My BF had ex's that were like that, they never wanted to do it then they went out and had affairs and then the relationship was over. Not saying that will happen to you though. Do you go down on her? If no ask her once and see what happens. Good luck to you!