Aww, man,
thespian86, They are not tricks. They're actually common sense. I talk about murdering people all day with my friends and joke about it so much it's disturbing. You may even think I think the way I speak when I'm with my friends.
But if I walked up to you and **Ahem** ...be myself, be laid back, be confident, and say, "dang man, that speech the supervisor gave was whack, I really want us to find a spot in the forest for her".
Would you even think twice about what I'm implying? Because that's EXACTLY what I would say to my friend here at work.