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Originally Posted by FlatLand Flyer
Oh, and you guys are right. I do have a very low self-esteem and big fear of rejection. two things really suck. I might get some self-esteem if I don't get rejected, but then again I might get rejected because I have such low self-esteem.
This is going to take a lot of work on my part.
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no dude, the opposite! The opposite! Self-esteem is a state of mind man.
Listen. If you are going to work on something try working on improving on the things that you enjoy. Work out. Learn how to play an instrument. Expand as a person by furthering yourself. Create a situation for yourself where you can feel confident.
But in the end it comes down to this: just do. It's not an issue of self-confidence if you ask me man. It's an issue of you refusing to break the mold. Just break it. Don't force change, but if what you truly want is to meet women then you'll be motivated to do it. If it's simply something you feel you must do to be "right" then it'll always feel wrong and awkward. Just do dude. Just do what feels right.