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Originally Posted by Xerxys
What makes people who are successful with women successful and what makes the loosers, loosers?
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Originally Posted by punkmusicfan21
I bomb with girls as much as I don't.
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Recognition. Acceptance. Complete lack of fear.
I, too, was and am largely successful with the ladies (although I'm happily attached now). I didn't spring from my mother's womb and immediately seduce the nearest nurse, though.
I disagree with punkmusicfan21 a bit. Social interaction is a skill, but it's not one that is divided across genders. Talking to dudes isn't all that different from talking to ladies, except that with ladies it's possible that the talking could lead to more. Actually, even that's not different depending on what you're in to.
You want to be able to talk to women? Go do it. You don't need games or tricks or negs or any of that shit. You just go do it. You'll crash and burn sometimes, sure. That's a part of life. When it happens, you laugh it off and move on.
You don't have to read anything. If you have basic hygiene down and can string 2 sentences together you already have all the skills you need.
You want to meet women? Go meet women. Yeah, it's that easy.