Hyacinthe

1) Ofcourse your anus has some form of natural lubricant otherwise you would rip off layers of flesh every time you voided. Actually, it's normal for the inside of the anus to continually produce some natural lubricant. During sexual arousal, the inner anal canal may generate more lube than usual. This substance can be "ejaculated" through the anus as a result of contractions due to stimulation and an empty bowel. Although you liken your anal ejaculate to semen, it's plain ol' mucous that's been secreted by the lining of the bowel. This is normal and nothing to be worried about. However, if you have constant diarrhea, pain during bowel movements, blood in your stools, and/or other symptoms, that's a different issue and you'd be wise to wash your hands and see a health care provider.

2) There are a whole series of toys out there that are designed for prostate stimulation - the rude boy I've got to tell you not the best - infact the only great thing about it is the whole rocking idea. Personally I would advise tantus products as the best to try in the situation. They're made of medical grade silicone (woodchipper and flame proof - yes I HAVE actually put one through a woodchipper and set one on fire- well tried, I love my job) which means they're completely safe to use they all come with a seperate vibrating bullet (well not the vacuum attachment bottom ones but almost all the others) and are ergonomically designed. Keep in mine though that they're not designed for a thrusting type use but more a rocking one though. The other thing I would suggest is trying to find Lelo prostate massager - it's more a finger attachment rather then an actual dildo type product the way the others are but apparantly it's prety fantastic, I can't give you a for certain guarantee because I haven't tried one (the female prostate being much harder to reach then the male) but I know that the men I work with who got one for product testing think it's possibly the best one currently out there. No vibration function far as I know though.

All of those will be a bit on the pricey side I am afraid (I tend to buy myself top of the range toys) but anything roughly the same shape as the Bob (The lelo product I am talking about) should work for you.

Now the way that the male orgasm works with the prostate is interesting, about 25 - 30% of ejaculate released is actually prostate fluid in the forms of acid phosphatase, citric acid, fibrinolysin, prostate specific antigen, proteolytic enzymes and zinc. Infact the entire reason that a cock ring (worn around the penis AND the scrotum as opposed to a shaft ring) works in extending the male orgasm is because it puts pressure on the connection from the prostate gland to your scrotum, that slowing of the release of the fluids from the prostate is actually what extends your orgasm. It is possible however to stimulate the prostate to the point where you can achieve a full body orgasm by prostate manipulation alone though it is often accompanied by penile secretions.

Am I a font of useless ( or useful in this case) knowledge or what?

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