I often wonder why people put so many limitations and expectations on sex.
Why worry about climax ratios? Why think it's your "job" to make a woman climax? We aren't robots that are supposed to make sure one gets off before the other or to hold back because we think we weren't good enough. Sex is about enjoying the other person and enjoying the sensations.
From my experiences, as long as you are having fun and enjoying yourself, the climaxes will take care of themselves naturally.. quit putting all the mental games into it and it will be alot more enjoyable.
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