*still chuckling at the phrase "crotch wampum"*
Orgasms are gifts. Take it, smile widely and thank the giver. Don't worry, they aren't running out of them. You'll make more.
And simultaneous orgasm is a concept that should not get in the way of enjoying a good romp. If you can do it, go for it. But don't waste perfectly good orgasms on the journey. I actually prefer watching my partner cum and I can't do that if I'm clenching and bucking.
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"Never regret something that once made you smile."
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