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Originally Posted by FlatLand Flyer
Where? I have been going to the gym to get myself in respectable shape and there are some girls there I am interested in, but I figure they just want to work out and not get hit on when they are sweaty.
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Try to put yourself in places where you'll find people (including women) that share your interests. You do have interests, don't you?
In your OP and other posts you don't say anything about yourself, except what you lack. Are you interested in mathematics, motorcycles, or music? Do you play poker, bridge, or Monopoly? Are you a geek, or a runner, or into meditation? Do you like museums, baseball, or old cars? Fishing, hunting, oil painting? Church, temple, or mosque? It is always easier to start up a conversation with someone when you have areas of commonality.
edit: FlatlandFlyer -- read kramus' post twice.
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Originally Posted by dlish
....in my experience women are attracted to happy and confidant males, but dont go putting on a fake show. talk to everyone about general conversations and topics YOU are interested in. just dont talk shit....
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And don't talk about your ex!!
I went out on an arranged blind date once, and all the guy could talk about was his ex. I know that this should probably go without saying, but you may need to hear it. By the end of the evening I felt like I knew her (the ex) pretty well, but I didn't know him at all!
Lindy