I'm a little stuck. I want to achieve a long-lasting, intense and/or fully-body orgasm by alternative means to penis stimulation. However, by my present knowledge, I only know of anal or prostate stimulation; I don't know how to achieve an orgasm by playing with my anus - with a toy - a dildo - fucking it. I've tried to achieve a prostate orgasm, and haven't had success with this either; I don't really -- know what my prostate feels like when stimulated.
So far, I've tried my fingers - if I place them 2" or so in my anus, and find a slippery/wet (Not dry, and not full of fecies, but rather... semen I guess), I experience a feeling similar to stimulating the head of my penis. After rubbing this area for a while, my body temperature increases, I become more sexually aroused and -- not only do I pre-cum - but -- I also notice semen leak from my anus, or some other fluid; it smells... nice I guess -- kinda arousing. After massaging for a while, or rubbing fast whilst pressing on this area, my fingers... ache a lot, and I can no longer continue to stimulate this area of my rectum.
I've also tried using the Rude Boy prostate vibrator (I'm not too sure, but it may be too big and not wide/thick enough); if I place this in fully, it feels as if I've hit a bone - a wall in my rectum. If I fuck this part whilst leaving the dildo vibrating, I'll feel as if I'm going to urinate, and again - I pre-cum.
The last means for achieving an orgasm from my rectum - or prostate, was a 7" rubber cock-dildo. Although un-successful most of the time, this had succeeded in providing the experience of an intense yet discreet feeling. I had this positioned quite specifically, but haven't been able to adjust to the position since; it wasn't fully in, but was around 2-3" outwards, and was poiting upwards to my penis. This had felt as if I had a second penis or something in my rectum, and was also as if it was being stimulated, and was close to climax. Although, I didn't climax and had broken out of this in excitement -- this had resulted in a feeling like numbness but was incredibly intense and pleasurable from within the spot the dildo was pointing - or pressuring upon from within my rectum. The feeling grew more intense within a matter of seconds, had spread to my penis and to my theighs.
So, I've been wondering as to how it should feel if my prostate is being stimulated, and as to any dildo's/prostate vibe's recommended for achieving an orgasm alike a female orgasm!
Any help is greatly appreciated!