+1 to what Taja and Shaindra said.
It may be that the new man may have been hurt in that way in a previous relationship. I know most men would probably be more hurt by the bisexual part of this question, since for you to "cheat" with another woman would especially call his "manhood" into question.
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Originally Posted by NorthernGirl
I have often been asked by a new man if I have ever cheated on a ex and if I have ever had a bi sexual experience....
If you are really "often asked" then you could help yourself by trying to improve the QUALITY while reducing the NUMBER of your partners
and I dont like revealing my sexual past and masturbation and what not, but I have found that men get pissed off when I dont want to answer a question, its like damned if I do and damned if I dont....What Taja said -- stand your ground!
...and also, I have had many relationships and I dont want to come off as a slut.... if you move easily from barstool to bedroom, you will come off as a slut...whether you are or not
...Im confused because I believe in honesty but I dont want to be judged for my past, ...I was not only a slut, but a slut in a small town. It was very hard for me to live down that reputation. I don't live there anymore, but when I go back to visit there are still guys that remember "Easy Lindy" from fifteen years ago.
...I want to find the right one and settle down .
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But guys outgrow that slutty stage too. If you can find a guy that wants to settle down that would be great! But if you are "easy" with him, he'll think you're easy with every guy. Trust me on this. I've travelled that road.
Lindy