My worry would be that if a new guy asks me if I've ever cheated, he's hoping to justify fooling around on me. I'd probably just start out with saying that I was uncomfortable sharing so soon (as Taja suggested). If he persisted though then I would possibly even respond with my version of a question..."Why would you even want to know that this? Do you have plans to cheat yourself?" If you put them on the defensive they may back down very quickly. Otherwise I would wonder if the idea of a woman being naughty that way turns him on. Still, even if that's the case it would be a red flag that he's not trustworthy.
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