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Old 04-30-2009, 06:26 PM   #6 (permalink)
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As far as marriage goes, it'll be 18 months to 2 years out most likely. We've had some discussion about it already and she wants to date for a year or so before we consider getting engaged. I told her that when she's ready she just needs to drop a few hints.
Dude, you're setting yourself up for grande-size failure by mentioning the M-bomb this early with time lines and framing out longevity expectation without actually knowing this person yet. It takes eons of time to get to know the real somebody inside your partner and the agenda that you've created is going to come back and get you at some point. Ease up on the chick flick whirlwind romance stuff time now, how copy over? Enjoy the companionship and hot-hot sex.

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