MajorHart

I think I would just go ahead and get it. There's going t be fireworks anyway and a possible breakup. She is addicted to have little kids around and that won't change.

I advise men on my website to never get married and to get a vasectomy early but never to mention it to anyone - not even a good buddy. Because it will get around.

Marriage would be fine IF women would not change their minds and want a baby but usually they always wanted a baby and many will get pregnant by someone else if you are married to them because it's still 50% theres and you are still legally responsible in most states for any baby your wife has.

I'm not saying all women will change their minds or get pregnant on purpose but I believe 90% will, if you aren't willing - they will have an accident like not taking their pills or more likely - going to a bar. This is not addressed toward your wife.

If a man tells anybody about his vasectomy - he will never get a date or sex and it's still something we need. Women are on a treadmill to (attract a man, date a man, marry and man and get pregnant.) SO why would they waste any time and attention on a man who had been snipped and could prove they are gotten pregnant somewhere else.

So I advise - no marriage - vasectomy - for frankly all men - unless you really do want to spent 25 or more years of your life raising one kid which may turn into 8 kids.

MajorHart