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Old 04-30-2009, 10:01 AM   #34 (permalink)
snowy
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Why does there have to be a label involved? Why do people have to fit into these neat little slots?

I like girls and I like boys, but what I'm into at the moment often depends more on the person than their equipment. I'm in a long-term relationship with a guy, but I still have a couple raging girl-crushes (he knows about them).

The best policy is honesty when you're dating someone and you might get serious; it's also totally okay to say that you don't know what you are, and you're still figuring that out. Otherwise, it's really none of their business. I always used to sort of brush it off by saying, "I'd prefer not to pin myself down with a label. It's too restricting." And no, I'm not the first person to do this; I actually got the idea from Michael Stipe of REM.

You'll figure it out someday. It's certainly not worth worrying over other's perceptions of you.
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