| We work to do something intimate every day--it's not always regular sex.  Sometimes we masturbate together, sometimes he gets a BJ, sometimes we just snuggle because we're too tired to do anything else, or we're not in the mood.  I think that's really the key here--intimacy, and doing something that puts you into regular physical contact with your partner, where you have to communicate about your wants and needs. 
				__________________If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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