Topless most of the time, definitely. But some of the most memorable I've gotten were fully clothed. It comes across as slightly illicit, which is cool. I'm thinking of one time I spent a night with my partner, and in the morning we got dressed and I was getting ready to leave for work, when she sat me down, unzipped me and gave me a bj (making me late for work, but that was ok). She actually wanted to give me a second one the same way and make me even later. I should have taken her up on it
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