Charlotte... North Carolina?
I've never been to Charlotte... but in Southport and Wilmington there're tons of bars to go to and apparently arcade sports (like skeeball and DDR) and karaoke is pretty popular. I wasn't of age the last time I've been in NC so I don't know how fun these actually are in a bar atmosphere.. but they're pretty fun out of the bar.. and things are always more fun with alcohol. So.. try it out for sure!
My friend in Greensboro always hangs out at a hookah bar in her area.. so check out some hookah. I love strawberry-pineapple hookah.
Go to
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