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Old 04-26-2009, 03:00 PM   #19 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Cynthetiq View Post
It's Nonya. None Ya business. You don't have to wake up next to him and you aren't her.
This would be the case if a) she wasn't a friend of hers, and b) there are no indicators of abuse.

If the situation is contrary, then it is her business. It's her business to give her friend support and to offer understanding of the situation, and to help her where help is needed.

Sorry, I don't think "It's none of your bee's wax" is appropriate here. Not from the behaviours and situations outlined above. Not if this is your friend.
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