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It's Nonya. None Ya business. You don't have to wake up next to him and you aren't her.
I'm going to have a dissenting opinion because quite frankly it isn't any of your business.
I don't like when people butt into my life telling me how to live it in any fashion. I don't but into someone's fiscal irresponsibility because I think they will live a better life under the lifestyle I've chosen.
I don't believe that any of us like when someone butts into our lives because they feel that some thing is better or should be done differently especially when no laws are being broken.
Unsolicited advice is useless on it's face. Many of life's lessons must be learned not just intellectually but also emotionally. It takes intent to convert the thought of change and the intention of change is driven by our pain and pleasure associations. So it maybe painful for her to change what she think is a bad situation, but it is more painful to think of or consider to really make the change.
So long as no skin or blood vessels are broken, no laws have been broken, it's up to her to make the choice.
You've said your piece, now it's up to you to either accept the friendship as it is, or move on.
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