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You are what you do.
You cannot change others and you spend a lifetime with your SO because you choose them for who they are. You right in the first place about being as happy as possible with what you've got and accepting others.
On the other hand, I ENCOURAGE stressing out over things that you can change and they make you unhappy. Your clothes, how you eat, what house you live in. What car you drive. Dude, as long as it makes YOU unhappy, by all means, stress over it. You see, you might be happy, but nothing remains stagnant. Only death and taxes. Better yourself everyday.
Others, people, other people's people, other people's cars, to each their own. Leave them be, you cannot change them. Accept them or don't, but DON'T EVER EVER GET SOMEONE DOWN FOR WHO THEY ARE!!!! I'd loose the friend.
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