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Originally Posted by mixedmedia
Personally, I think you can gauge pretty acurately without actually having sex how powerful the physical aspect of a potential relationship will be. Especially if there is actual communication about sex beforehand. I can say with absolute certainty that I can tell how good a man will be in bed (with me) from the way he kisses (me).
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I have to disagree.. even though you did mention the Sex and the city episode.
For me... I'm the type to fuck on the first date because I'm the type of person that can NEVER tell how much a guy is flirting or how much a guy is into me. And.. I'm not a good kisser... I find kissing kinda gross. I dunno why!!! :/ But, so.. I'll fuck a guy if him and I get along well enough.. and if the sex is interesting enough... I'll consider him more as sex is very important to me in a relationship.
It sounds shallow.. but if my boyfriend had a small penis or was horrible at sex.. I wouldn't be with him.
He needs to meet my physical needs before I open up to him completely. also... seeing how he tries or doesn't try to get me into his bed shows me how much of a douchebag he is or isn't.