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Originally Posted by Sherk
In theory, the idea is great. Both partners get to have some satisfaction outside the norm - however in fact it's a little different. Lots of jealousy, lots of problems stemming from it.
If you're both open-minded, go for it.
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I have to respectfully disagree with you there. it is not ALWAYS stemmed with lots of jealousy or problems. Actually in the regular lifestyle, the minority have jealousy issues come up. The key is communication. If either of the parties is uncomfortable with it, then you just don't do it at all. The biggest thing, as I have mentioned before, is that you must communicate, and be able to separate sex, from making love. If you can do that, then you are over the first hurdle in considering the lifestyle.
Marshie, do you mind if I ask what concerns you two are having when discussing it? What jealousy are you concerned about? I would love to be able to help.